RATE WHATS IMPORTANT IN RELATION

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Friends, Lovers and Soul Mates by Drs. Derek Hopson and Darlene Powell Hopson

Read each statement. Rate the statement as it applies for you in a relationship. How important is the statement for you in a relationship?

Rate 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
10 being very important
1 being not important at all


We both have a strong sense of ethnic identity.
We share a common vision of the future.
We are emotionally intimate and can share feelings.
We are intellectually compatible.
We are faithful to each other.
The sex is really hot.
We have attained similar education levels.
We are each willing to make sacrifices for the other.
We maintain independent friendships outside this relationship.
I am physically attracted to him/her.
He/She feels closely tied to the Black church.
He/She is comfortable "switching up" in white circles.
He/She has a professionally satisfying career.
He/She makes a lot of money
My family approves of the match.
We communicate openly and honestly.
He/She has a great body
We explore new ways to please each other sexually.
He/She is romantic.
We share concerns and feelings.
He/She talks to me about the past and about hopes for the future.
He/She believes in family.
He/She is spiritual.
He/She gives back to the Black community.

[Mya B.]

We both have a strong sense of ethnic identity. 10
We share a common vision of the future. 10
We are emotionally intimate and can share feelings. 10
We are intellectually compatible. 7
We are faithful to each other. 10
The sex is really hot. 10
We have attained similar education levels. 7
We are each willing to make sacrifices for the other. 10
We maintain independent friendships outside this relationship. 10
I am physically attracted to him/her. 10
He/She feels closely tied to the Black church. 1
He/She is comfortable "switching up" in white circles. 1
He/She has a professionally satisfying career. 7
He/She makes a lot of money 7
My family approves of the match. 7
We communicate openly and honestly. 10
He/She has a great body 6
We explore new ways to please each other sexually. 10
He/She is romantic. 8
We share concerns and feelings. 10
He/She talks to me about the past and about hopes for the future. 10
He/She believes in family. 10